Public Speaking Training:
The art of timing is a very important lesson from your public speaking
It is one of the most important aspects of humor and NO ZZZZZs, public speaking.
Timing is not only involved in an individual piece of humor, but it is also
involved in where you place that humor in your presentation. Timing is also
important when when you react to 'expected' unexpected developments during your
Jack Benny said this about timing, 'When you are speaking, timing is not so
much knowing when to speak, but knowing when to be quiet.'
He should know, because he delivered a very famous and funny line after a
very long pause. He was being held up by a robber at gunpoint. The robber said,
'Your money or your life!' Jack didn't speak a word for a long period of time.
The robber became impatient and yelled, 'YOUR MONEY OR YOUR LIFE!!' Jack finally
replied, 'I'm thinking.' His image as a cheapskate, coupled with a long pause
indicating he was having trouble deciding whether to give up his money, or die
was really hysterical.
A pause lets the audience catch up and draw pictures in their mind to relate
to what you are saying. It is the audience's signal to imagine - using the word
pictures you practice in your public speaking training.
In telling a joke in public, pause just before and just after your punch line
to give the audience a chance to laugh. Do not continue speaking when laughter
is expected no matter how hard it is to keep quiet. Laughter is hard to get and
easy to discourage.
Make sure you hold eye contact a little bit longer than you think you should
when delivering punch lines because time is hard to judge when you are pumped-up
for a presentation, yet "pregnant pauses" are another lesson you will
learn in my public speaking training.
The size of your audience will also affect your timing. Your presentation
will take less time to deliver to smaller audiences. Smaller audiences hopefully
will mean quicker laughter.
Conversely, presentations will take longer for big crowds in large public
arenas. Your pauses will be longer to compensate for the wave effect created
because of the physical distance between you and the back row of the audience.
Go with the flow, but you set the flow in motion, and await a flood of fun