Public Speaking Training:
I picked up some more tips for my public speaking training, recently, while I
was standing around talking to other presenters at the National Speakers
A professional speaker named John Meluso, spent some time watching me and
noted that I was not showing the audience any vulnerability near the start of my
I would roll along in my usual style and then give a signature story at the
END of my talk that showed my sensitive humorous style. John, pointed out to me
that being the kind of public speaker that I am, I have probably been
alienating many of the sensitive audience members. Once alienated, those members
don't hear you anymore.
It is likely that right from the start my stage persona ran right over them,
causing them to retreat for cover and making them retreat emotionally.
Because of John's astute observation, when I'm speaking I will change the
order of some of my material to better connect with more subdued audience
Having grown up not far from Pittsburgh in Washington, Pennsylvania, and
having my brains battered playing lineman in football at school at West Virginia
U, I can still recall how an old boy coal miner friend of mine once told me,
'The schoolhouse door is always open.'
The vulnerability is to admit that not always can we say "Our minds be
John, I want to thank you for reminding me that as we master all we learned
from our public speaking training, always and in all ways, we all can get better
and improve our skills.